I am a huge fan of subscription boxes. You can now get almost anything delivered to your home on a regular schedule! Here are some of my favorite ones I have tried so far, and my thoughts on them:
I have been working from home since January now and thought it was time for an update on that.
About a month ago, I was asked by my former company to work remotely for them (temporarily) while another admin was out on medical leave. So, for the past 4 week, I have occasionally been reviewing/editing reports for them in the interim. Depending on how long she is out, I will likely be helping them for another few weeks. It’s a good way to get some extra money in my pocket this spring since I don’t know how much freelance work I will have time for once summer vacation kicks in around mid-June.
I’m still working on various freelance projects: editing, writing articles, proofreading, etc. I have a couple regular, weekly assignments that I do and occasionally will take on a non-regular assignment for one of my regular clients. I am not actively seeking additional projects since I also have my part-time work currently. Once that work flow works, I’ll be handling summer activities, so I probably won’t try to take on a ton of work until school ramps up again in the fall.
So, one thing that I now have to figure out in addition to freelance taxes (I set aside about 30% of all I earn to cover taxes), I now have to figure out how best to handle my 401K situation. I currently have two separate 401Ks that I will likely need to roll-over. Then I will have to determine how much money I want to add to it each month so keep it growing. I’d rather be proactive at 36, then worry what I will live on in 30 more years.
Since I likely won’t be returning to work full-time in the foreseeable future (M will likely require care into adulthood), much of our financial stability (not to mention health insurance) will stem from my husband’s career. The good news is that it takes the pressure off me to bear the burden of earnings. Instead, I take on the role of household management.
So far, I have done a poor job of decreasing our overall spending as a household. I spend significantly less money on eating out for lunch, getting coffee, work clothes, and gas (not driving 70 miles round trip each day will do that). I probably save $75+/week just by NOT working. Maybe I will eventually get into couponing, but so far it’s been more of a hassle than a help.
A couple of years ago, I volunteered to be the chairperson the PTO Beautification Committee at my eldest son’s elementary school. I am the poster child for biting off more than I can chew, especially in an area where I have literally NO expertise. My skills lie in the organization, planning, and detailed checklists. Not in actually doing stuff like designing or creating spaces. So, for me gardening is a whole new world I don’t feel like I really understand or belong in.
I hear a lot of stupid stuff come out of people’s mouths about autism.
Ignorance is common, but when it’s mingled with and effort to console, reassure, or commiserate…it often becomes unbearable! Yes, you probably mean well, which is why I haven’t brought it up before. You likely want to help support me and my family, which is great. I just wish you knew how the things you say and post often make me cringe.
Here are the top kinds of statements that make me want to punch you in the face (and why):
“People don’t live in a big, scary world; they live in small scary worlds, one accident away from losing everything.”
— Henry Jackson, in “Raptor Ray” by B. Reilly
While I would not personally recommend this book, this particular quote in it really resonated with me. So often, we look at life through our own fears and apprehensions. In many ways our fears (and how we face them) define us.
Everyone has their own preferences for things, but I thought I would share some of mine, because that’s how they became my favorites. Someone once shared an item that they liked with me, so I tried it. If I liked it, it then joined my list. Maybe it will also join yours.
As the mother of a second-grader in the middle of February, I am noticing a few things I dislike about how Black History Month is addressed in schools.
This month, he brought home some worksheets about various different historical figures, such as Harriet Tubman and Jackie Robinson. Together, we helped answer the questions together about them. He felt a connection to Harriet Tubman because she is also from Maryland (to an 8-year-old that is relatable). But there was something missing from his homework.
Among other things, the bulk of my days are spent on freelance writing/editing, household chores, and child-related activities. It’s these other things that seem to make or break my days. They are often ME moments I spend relaxing or doing something that I enjoy.
It’s easy to say you should find your happy, but it’s MUCH harder in practice to find the time, energy, and motivation for these activities. Here are a couple of ways I find my happy, but you do whatever works for YOU!
Here are some interesting Olympics facts for your final Friday of the 2018 Winter games. Why? Because the Olympics are awesome!
The renowned American composer, John Williams, has been a composer for Olympic music since 1984. His 1996 piece “Bugler’s Dream and Olympic Fan” can be heard on NBC during coverage of the 2018 Winter Olympics in PyeongChang, South Korea. Williams has composed music for four different Olympics (1984, 1988, 1996 and 2002). He is also well-known for some of the most recognizable film scores, including Star Wars, Harry Potter, and Jurassic Park.
The games this year feature 102 events in 15 different sports. New events added in 2018 include:
- Big Air Snowboarding
- Mass-Start Speed Skating
- Mixed Doubles Curling
- Mixed Team Alpine Skiing
The Host “City”
The IOC typically selects a host city about 7 years prior to the games. PyeongChang, South Korea (pronounced Pee-Yung-Chong NOT Pee-Yong-Chang) won the bid over cities in Germany and France. The 2018 games represents the first time that South Korea has hosted the Winter Olympics (they hosted the 1988 Summer games in Seoul). PyeongChang actually refers to the county, rather than a city. The majority of the games are actually being held in Daegwallyeong-myeon (mountain events) and Gangneung (ice events).
The Torch Relay
Although not a highlight of the games, one of the things I loved about the 2018 Winter Olympics is their very symbolic and unique torch relay. According to wikipedia, “there were 7,500 torch bearers to represent the Korean population of 75 million people. There were also 2018 support runners to guard the torch and act as messengers.” I love how they represented their nation in this unique way. I also loved the various different ways they used to transport the torch, including a zip wire, cable car, turtle ship, robots, and steam train!
Pita Taufatofua – While most people recognize him as the shirtless flag-bearer from Tonga, I was impressed by his appearance for another reason. Despite living in a tropical nation with no snow, Taufatofua (who competed in taekwondo at the 2016 Summer games in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil) switched to cross-country skiing. He managed to qualify for the 2018 Winter games on the final day of the qualification period.
Adam Rippon – Not only does this figure skater have his own signature move, dubbed the “Rippon Lutz”, he is also the first openly gay U.S. male athlete to win a medal at the Winter Olympics (bronze in the 2018 team event). He is also an outspoken advocate for LGBTQ rights and against quiet starvation in athletics.
Askel Lund Svindal – After a skiing accident in 2016, Svindal damaged his knee and underwent surgery on it in January 2017. Despite these setbacks, Svindal became his Norway’s first downhill gold medallist at the 2018 games, and at the age of 35 he is the oldest man to win an alpine skiing gold.
Vincent Zhou – At age 17, he’s the youngest American competing at the 2018 winter games. During his short program, he landed a quad lutz. A quad lutz is the most difficult move currently recognized as achievable! Nobody before him has ever successfully landed one at the games before.
A month ago today, I quit my job to stay-at-home. It’s been both exactly what I expected and not what I expected at all.
So far, my schedule has been pretty erratic. I’d like to think that’s just because I haven’t established a routine, but mostly I haven’t had a chance to start to form one. The last four weeks have been a mixture of inconsistencies between the schedule for the family and my own work.
I’d like to hope that a typical schedule will gradually develop, but I am starting to think that anything resembling an average week went out the window a month ago.
For now, it’s just playing it by ear and see how things go.