Everyone has their own preferences for things, but I thought I would share some of mine, because that’s how they became my favorites. Someone once shared an item that they liked with me, so I tried it. If I liked it, it then joined my list. Maybe it will also join yours.
Among other things, the bulk of my days are spent on freelance writing/editing, household chores, and child-related activities. It’s these other things that seem to make or break my days. They are often ME moments I spend relaxing or doing something that I enjoy.
It’s easy to say you should find your happy, but it’s MUCH harder in practice to find the time, energy, and motivation for these activities. Here are a couple of ways I find my happy, but you do whatever works for YOU!
A month ago today, I quit my job to stay-at-home. It’s been both exactly what I expected and not what I expected at all.
So far, my schedule has been pretty erratic. I’d like to think that’s just because I haven’t established a routine, but mostly I haven’t had a chance to start to form one. The last four weeks have been a mixture of inconsistencies between the schedule for the family and my own work.
I’d like to hope that a typical schedule will gradually develop, but I am starting to think that anything resembling an average week went out the window a month ago.
For now, it’s just playing it by ear and see how things go.
When I was a child, intelligence meant one thing: good grades. If you didn’t get them, your parents likely had “words with you” about your performance as a student. After my son was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD) with language impairments and borderline intellectual impairments, I started rethinking the world of IQ and Intelligence.
IQ (or Intelligence Quotient) is a standardized test mean to assess human intelligence. It’s also used to determine if an individual has an intellectual disability. Sounds simple, right?
The way we view life and the world around us is unique to our experiences and personality. It’s hard to remember and make the concentrated effort to change our perspective, but if we can manage it the results can be more than worth the effort.
It’s both as simple and as complicated as changing our dominant hand. Only about 1% of people are naturally ambidextrous. Many people, such as myself, can write legibly with both hands, but writing with the non-dominant hand often feels unnatural and takes more effort. Most people can train themselves to use both hands, but this too takes a concentrated effort.
One of the pitfalls of being in the majority (in this case right-handedness) is that you forget about the minority (about 12% of people are lefties). This allegory can apply to many perspective issues and has taught me to rethink the way I approach the world.
Let’s face it. In life, people rarely get dealt a great hand to play. In most cases, if you end up with a semi-decent collection of cards, you thank your lucky stars and make the best of it. It’s never all good chances and circumstances or all bad ones, but learning how to make the best of a tough situation in life is not just a survival technique…
They are the moments that define us.
One thing I always remember when I am dealt a poor hand, is that…
The holiday celebrations are over. The gifts are all unwrapped. My house is still in chaos…time for a post-holiday stay-cation!
Christmas fell on a Monday this year, and while we would typically stay as long as possible in Michigan visiting family after the most rambunctious of holidays, this year we decided to drive home early.
Best decision ever!
I have become a huge advocate of the need for a break after vacations (even if you can only squeeze in an extra day!)
An extra day to do it all can make life much less stressful.
- Decompress! — If you have kids, you know that a vacation is a stressful, though often fun, adventure. Your family makes lasting memories, BUT you also had to deal with all the drama of traveling, making a temporary home, and feeding your family while away from the comfort of your own kitchen.
- Stuff to Do — There is always STUFF to do after a trip. Unpacking, laundry, cleaning the car, preparing for the next day, grocery shopping, pick up a pet, water the plants, etc.
- Schedule Adjustment — Depending how far you traveled and what your family schedule was while into on the vacation, sometimes a day (or more) is needed to help get everyone back on their regularly-scheduled program before work/school begins again.